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Hello Confidence, Good-bye Negative Thoughts

             Hello Confidence, Good-bye Negative Thoughts




Beware of your inner self-critic. It doesn't like your confidence to get the better of you. In contrast to your self-confidence which is a kind of muse to wake up your potential, self-criticism can only survive by downgrading your true potential. Thankfully, there is something you can do to limit the power of the inner-critic.

In this video I will share a very effective way to once and for all replace self-doubts and limiting beliefs with healthy self-confidence!

My name is Eddie Grassi. I am a career and relationships coach in San Francisco with my own practice.

Are you looking to build your self-esteem and self-confidence?

You can visit me at lifecoachingaid.com.

Eddie Grassi, Life Coach PLP, MA
lifecoachingaid.com
Career and Relationships CoachSan Francisco, CA 94132


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